Anger and the way to 'play' with it!

Whenever we are angry, its good for us to express the anger. coz if we suppress it and keep it inside us, one day, it'll turn us into a beast. we all know this but the problem lies with people who cannot control their anger....

just take a simple example. this guy is frustrated with his teammates in a game. he got pissed off with them and walked away. well, it's normal. but if he shows his frustration to another fren who he meets on the way back, he's an a**hole. if you are angry with something, let it go to that particular something. if you are angry with ur books, y r u kicking the chair? this will only make u more lonely. and trust me, when u need someone and there's no one for ya to turn to, u'll suffer. to avoid that, it's always better to control ur anger. anger, an alphabet short of danger, will accumulate only when u keep it. forget about it. everyone makes mistakes. forgive and forget. if you keep blaming and finding faults, u'll be always angry.

meditation seems to be the best way to stay happy and calm. dun be angry on anything which don't worth even ur thoughts. coz no one like to be angry or to be with someone who's angry. talking to a fren will help as well. u will not only feel better after talking but the relationship with your fren will become stronger. u'll find a fren in the person as well. so smile and stay cool.

back stabbers..... don't u learn????

It has been slightly over a month since the last time i blogged. well, in this one month, a lot of things have happened. Pretty busy and will be busy till the end of the semester and my undergrad studies. Man, i'm graduating soon. cool.

In this one month, i went thru a lot. i guess, when people are desperate, they'll start to show their ugly side. and trust me, its really ugly. i've only heard bout back stabbers last time but only now i'm experiencing the back stabbing. it was bad but it wont affect me anymore. we shud never let those back stabbing affect us. i nearly lost my grade; it was that bad. the back stabbers do not worth even our thoughts. they are trash. i'm that hurt, actually. maybe, when they see a short cut to run away from problems, they don't see who's beside them. they just push them away so that they can take the pathetic short cut so that they will stay 'good'.

but now, things are getting better. though not yet reaching the 'normal' state, it's getting better. a good lesson to learn. for those outside there, becareful of these parasites. we can't stop them from talking and creating stories but just dun bother them. as long as u have frens who u can rely on, nothing can 'shake' u.

Football fans.... first step to find a girl...

Have u ever thought what would happen if your girl's birthday falls on the same day as Man U vs Arsenal match? or other big matches? Which one would you sacrifice? haha. tough call, rite. well, here are some tips on how to choose a girl. only suggestion.

lets see the year calendar of all the leagues and competitive matches. It starts from mid-August to mid-May the following year. So choosing a girl who was born during this period is a bit risky. There's a chance for big matches and your girl's b'day fall on the same day. World Cup, Copa America and Euro will start around early June and end in the mid-July. There's a risk too. Worst still if your girl was born in May. Champions League Final, FA Cup Final, etc. will be during that period. Or if your girl was born in July, there's a possibility World Cup Final will be on her birthday. then, we are screwed up! haha. unless she's understanding. but its very hard to find a girl who watches football and celebrate her birthday at the same time. most girls will wanna celebrate their b'day far away from television; K-Box. haha.

so guys, y wanna take risk. why do u wanna lie to your girl just to watch football match. Pick a girl who has a birthday where there's not even friendly matches around. This is simple. The b'day should be from 20th of May (after all the finals) and before June (before the World Cup starts). Or around end of July to early August where leagues are not started yet. haha. then u have no worries in skipping any important matches or your girl's b'day. haha. relationship is a life time commitment and football is something we can't miss. so pick the best and wise choice. we need both!

Blaming others..... y?

well, no one wants to be at the wrong side. no one wants to be blamed. and most of us will somehow try to take the 'short-cut' to escape from something. and for that, we'll even blame others.

if something goes wrong, the best thing to do is to identify the problems and think of the solutions and try to solve them. however, in that process, people might point others for the mistakes and problems created. it goes along with 'not in my backyard'. as long as i'm fine, thats okay. something like that. a bunch of losers.

for me, only a coward will blame others. only a coward person will take the 'chicken' way to run away from problems. be a man. do the right thing. no one is perfect. we do make mistakes. but we have to learn from the mistakes and try our very best not to repeat them but not having a good night sleep by blaming others. if u happen to make a mistake, admit it. promise urself that u will not repeat it. this is what i think is appropiate.

for some people, i hope you'll stop blaming others and take the responsibilities of ur own s**tz. try to be brave and fix the problems u create. u'll be happier than ever. stop pointing ur fingers to others!!!

first day of schooooool....

well, today is the start of the school of my last sem... kind of boring first day. the first two classes, with 300 and 550 students respectively in the lecture halls. man, guess what. i learned some basic simple sampling and history of perfumes. haha. my 6pm class was another shocker. only 13 of us inside. ganja. so unpopular module. the competition must be very high and i know i wont be up there. haha.

new sem, new goals. wanna do everything systematically. must start now or else it will be messy towards the end of the sem. haha. my printer doesnt wanna print my notes and i have no idea why. man, its a challenging semester. all da best to all. never give up!!!

Lesson of the day: never deprive anyone of hope. it may be all they have!!!

Being sad... y do people choose it?

i was chatting with a fren the other day and i came to know that she din celebrate the new year the way she always used to: with a smile. when asked, she told me that she was feeling sad. her fren was frustrated about something and took all the frustation on my fren. she was down coz her fren had never treated her like that before n vice versa. as a fren who's very far away, i could only console her by words which din turn out well as i expected.

this made me think. y do people feel sad? hormones? emotions? anyway, i feel that it's our choice. being sad is normal, i agree. but no one likes to be sad or depressed. who are the ones committing suicide? the happy ones? the smiling ones? i dun think so. if something goes the way we din want to, its good to think about it and solve it. we might not make it follow our way again, but at least, we'll learn something. when u lose, dun lose the lesson! everything is meant to be. everything has its own explanation. but time matters. i'm going thru a lot that i can't even explain. but i know, in future, i'll get all the explanation i want. always think positive and there won't be any negative things happening to u.

honestly, if i were to frown, sad or depressed for what i've gone thru or what i'm going thru, there won't be a single minute for me to smile. but i din choose to. coz being sad will not solve any problems. being happy will at least makes us feel and think better. enjoy the life coz life is short. dun be sad coz people who are sad tend to get angry very fast. and anger is just one word short of danger. think twice if u wanna be sad. overcome it fast, u'll live ur life better!!!

Lesson of the day: love your job and u'll never work another day in ur life!!!

A well spent New Year!

First of all, Happy New Year to all. How did your new year celebration go? Did u go for any countdowns anywhere? hope you had an enjoyable new year. after all, its 2007!!!

My new year was born in a quiet manner. The first thing i did on my new year was to do laundry at 12.05am. haha. on this new year, we should be clean, rite? then i went to bed at around 2am. woke up early in the morning to go to temple. It's always good to start anything by going to the temple first. Vertical relationships are much more important than horizontal ones. So i met Mohan there and after the prayers, we took breakfast at Little India. A good start of my new year. After that, i met Rachel to do the project together. we had so much fun together; she being so frustrated at the software while i was enjoying my new sitcom: 'My Name is Earl'. Quite funny and interesting.

nothing much till we met for dinner. We went to Vivo City. Mohan joined us there. had a very long and productive chat. well, there's no one particular new year resolution for me. This year's only goal is to make everything i wished and dream before come true. i'll try my best coz even if i lose, i would not lose the lesson. I came back to my room after 11pm. What a day!!! I really feel that i spent the start of 2007 quite well. hope everyone did.

Lesson of the day for the year!!! What goes around comes around. If you do good things, good things will happen to you. But if u do bad things, they will come back to haunt u-karma! - quoted from the new sitcom. Happy New Year!!!