Being sad... y do people choose it?

i was chatting with a fren the other day and i came to know that she din celebrate the new year the way she always used to: with a smile. when asked, she told me that she was feeling sad. her fren was frustrated about something and took all the frustation on my fren. she was down coz her fren had never treated her like that before n vice versa. as a fren who's very far away, i could only console her by words which din turn out well as i expected.

this made me think. y do people feel sad? hormones? emotions? anyway, i feel that it's our choice. being sad is normal, i agree. but no one likes to be sad or depressed. who are the ones committing suicide? the happy ones? the smiling ones? i dun think so. if something goes the way we din want to, its good to think about it and solve it. we might not make it follow our way again, but at least, we'll learn something. when u lose, dun lose the lesson! everything is meant to be. everything has its own explanation. but time matters. i'm going thru a lot that i can't even explain. but i know, in future, i'll get all the explanation i want. always think positive and there won't be any negative things happening to u.

honestly, if i were to frown, sad or depressed for what i've gone thru or what i'm going thru, there won't be a single minute for me to smile. but i din choose to. coz being sad will not solve any problems. being happy will at least makes us feel and think better. enjoy the life coz life is short. dun be sad coz people who are sad tend to get angry very fast. and anger is just one word short of danger. think twice if u wanna be sad. overcome it fast, u'll live ur life better!!!

Lesson of the day: love your job and u'll never work another day in ur life!!!