Love.... not everyone understands it! not everyone can describe the feelings associated with it! and not everyone will get the chance to feel it! Actually, as far as i concern, liking a person is not the only thing required to love the person. for an instance, if a person can't stand to meet another person, he/she might be having a crush on her/him. If the person fancies her/him coz of her/his outlook, the person admires her/him. if a person keeps on thinking about her/him, most probably the person is worried bout her/him. That's all. however, if a person is happy because she/he is happy, make her/him the happiest person in the world and understands her/him 100%, then the person is in love with her/him. Never fall in love with a person who you don't know her/him 100% coz your love will not prolong!! love is a lifetime commitment. it's not a 'masak masak' game!
love never fails. actually, one of the lovers fails. love is always there. it depends on us whether to feel it or not. if we are unable to share the feeling, then we fail as a lover. and when your partner says, "I'm sorry. I don't think our relationship will work out! Lets break up!", respect the decision. It'll be very hard, not impossible, to make your partner to love you back. But it's better to leave your partner go. Good for your partner and on top of that good for you too. when someone doesn't appreciate you or your relationship, then the person doesn't worth your time or love. trust me, if you are good, you'll get a better one. Just don't be like movies villain trying to 'destroy' your partner. by commiting that mistake, you are making your partner so great and you are 'down-grading' yourself. so dun. just hope that your partner will be happy wherever she/he is. that shows how great your love is! and dun be sad over it. Overcome it! remember, no one worth your tears, and the one who is will never make you cry!
now, how would you react if you are being loved? actually, that's the best possible feeling one can get. to be loved! never over react! dun boast around. and please give the person a chance. if the person is not your kind, make him/her to understand it. he/she will respect you more. try not to hurt anyone's feelings coz you'll never want to be in their shoes. at least, respect them for loving you coz they saw something in you which others didn't.
when both of you are in love with each other, then you can see the paradise in front of your eyes. Treasure the relationship and you can live happily ever after just like any other fairy tales. it doesn't take a prince and a princess to be in a fairy tale. create your own and when your children want to talk about a great fairy tale, they'll talk about both of you. Love needs two to share. make sure you understand your partner and vice versa. and god bless you!!! hope we can find someone to love and someone to love us and hope our love is forever......
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the meaning of love is when u actually realize that you want the person to make him/her realize his happiness with u a 100 percent.. and u dont seek ur own happiness at all...
ITs not easy breaking up...believe me on it, as specially when the person means ur earth, son, life, soul, and ur future... but something that is true is, if the person really love u, he /she wont make u cry no more... something that took me or well is still taking me a long time to realize....
I still miss her....miss her a lot..........
Anonymous..whoever u are,cheer up ok?look towards the future.If the girl u are missing doesn't msg or call u anymore,obviously she doesn't want to be with u anymore.She's probably forgotten about u,so it's time for u to continue living on with ur life and look around.Who knows,someone very near u has been loving u for a long time? =)
bro, i know how does it feel when the person who we love doesn't even looking at us!!! i know it's not easy to break-up (no experience though) but what's the point of crying it over the spilt milk!!! i can understand ur feelings as i was near you when you were going thru s**t. come on, bro! we have each other who we call true friends!! we'll always be everywhere for everyone! ok! so cheer up!!! dun go back to the last time. stop looking at the history and look at the future. i'm not trying to discourage u here, but i'm trying to put it some hope n confidence in your life!!! carry on with your life and you are doing great!
Well bro , we have been through all our ups and downs even which includes ur break-up and recovery .brought us all closer together in such a short span , its rather fortunate im who i am otherwise i would have told u to fuck off as u did call me late at night one day to talk and i barely knw u.
thats why till this day no matter wht differences we have i understand as we are truly alike in many ways though we at times might not share the same perspective.
Either way yea it sucks big time when u love a person and wanna b wit her but she just neglects or chooses to do other stuff when u mean the world to her then she later probably complains they arent any eligible guys around ..fuck her for sayin tht coz she neva opened her bloody eyes in the first place.
One request to God and tht wud b to make people united under one colour and belief so as to bring about unity . life wud b better without racism and partiality
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