well, i've been telling everyone to think and act positively. however, i just realized that for the past few weeks, i was not positive at all. I was being pissed for small matters and let the emotion to take over me. i was complaining for everything. i was sad, depressed, frustrated and angry. i have no idea how could i be like that. i'm the guy who will try my very best not to show my problems but i guess i was affected emotionally. i was very negative.
two nights before, i was chatting with my friend. well, i told her everything that i was going through. i did not feel stupid nor embarassed to share those stuffs with her coz i've been sharing a lot of things with her since the first year. we chatted for hours. she was listening to my problems. then, she told me to be positive. she reminded me what i used to say. be positive, clam and be cool. everything is meant to be. and we must be positive and try to accept it. look at the bright side of the world. she made me understood that being positive during hard times is difficult but not impossible. thank you.
only then i realized that there was no point for me to be down. i'm in a position where no matter what happens, i 'win'. i came to know that thinking negatively for that matter would only affect me emotionally. it would never help me to overcome my feelings. yes. its true. we have to be positive.
after that, i was back to normal. now, i'm happy even though my 'problem' is not yet solved. i know, it will get solved by itself and i will accept it. hey, friend! thank you very much for your advice. u have been always there whenever i needed advice. now, i'm happy with the life i'm living and with the people around me. really happy and no regrets. look at the bright side of the world...
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