when someone needs help, we should give a hand to them no matter who they are. this is one of the basic humanity values. Coz when someone needs help, he/she really expecting someone to help him/her. and if we can, we should help them. however, if we are not in the position to help, we should straight away tell the person that we are not able to help.
However, we must make sure that we are not being used by others. for an instance, a person can be the sweetest thing on earth when he/she needs something from you. he/she even asks about your grandfather. but when he/she doesn't need you, he/she cares nothing about u! what kind of species are those people. i always believe that when we ask for help and help is given to make our lives better, we should as well help others who might need help. and never forget the one who helped you coz without the person, you would have ended up in some bad place u can't even imagine.
i have come across some people who never help the person who helped them. worse still if the person needs the same help he/she has given to them. now, doesn't that sound ridiculous. come on..... everyone needs help. and when help is given, please don't forget the person and his/her contribution. appreciate them. maybe both of you can become real friends......
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You knw Dinesh this sounds so familiar , i have been in this situation ..i realised ppl come to me only when they need help and when not in need they are totally alien to me and even totally disregard my help by ignoring or speakin in a foreign language. so many times dude ..doesnt this show they are only making use of you .
I mean i go out of my way to help and then i get this in return not that im asking for anything in return , im just asking for to be treated like a human being and not like a slave who is called when needed .
Its sad , if i said i didnt cry or even weep deep down inside i must b the biggest liar in the universe . Sometimes things like this make me wonder is it worth spending time or even sharing God's love with these ppl when its just shoved aside or ignored like a beggar on the streets .
Totally food for thought . not that im depressed or anything but just annoyed at the fact people take for granted the assistance . im just askin to be a friend and not to get into your pants for a f**k .
Cheers
Danny-Boy
Bro, i think u got it right. and i guess, u r not the only 'victim'. or shall i call 'prey'. we were not respected as human beings, bro! told ya.... trust me. there are people outside there who'll appreciate us. i have some. so i'm not that affected coz i din and will not care anymore. once the heart is broken, it is always broken.
However, i will still be there if they really need help. Well, this is how i was brought up. Help people honestly. i believe you are the same as well. We will help them, Dan. No worries. in return, we hope that they'll help some other people.
Thank you for being honest. And one more thing. even if osama bombs America again, even if SARS hits Singapore again, even if Jihads bomb themselves in public... i'll always be there for you and i believe u will too. This is what we call true friendship!
Dinnie!
Just tell the ppls names that way they will feel it...
I told u ... get away from this ppl, ive been in the same position like so many years ago...get away from them, cuz no matter what... they are just going to be using u, u need to get away and start finding better ppl...
But sadly its ur choice to stick with the ppl that are of those character and u dont wanna find new ppl.. its hard i know, im facing it now... sometimes u feel loneliness, depression and sadness.. but the fact is ur not being used and ur already on the way to finding better ppl.. so just fuck this ppl as i can guess who they are...
You knw Aman i totally agree tht i shud find more friends . ive given them 1 ,2,3...uncountable amount of chance to reconcile but they fail to realise their mistakes and probably might scold u for being so sensitive over petty issues
ive gone out of my way to get stuff done for u when it was a hassle, i was the shoulder to cry on n company in time of need , i was there to assist when you could not turn to anyone else , i saved cash so we could go out and have fun instead of puchasin a better phone or even pampering myself . i rem to ask for a meal off and on no doubt i feel like a fool as i always initiate , i was hurt when i was left standing alone when i tot we were close but u left to a new place i wanted so badly to introduce to u , just ignored me and continued to converse in a foreign language and joked with others .
i could go on and on about this but yes i feel tht there is hope in humanity , whether ppl get racist , or people feel like suicide or bombing is the answer to life's problems .
wht i dnt understand is tht if u do believe in the right GOD then race and skin colour would not matter as he made us that way and even our beliefs . FEELINGS ! nt where u came frm , who ur parents are , whther ur a hindu or muslim ..fuck tht . If this is wht u believe rest assure u will be reborn in the next life as a frog on sumones dinner table or even nt make it to heaven because u have just disregarded a creation of God by showing preference.
Think about it , what i wrote has a lot of wisdom which i believe is not from me but a message from God .so whoever who reads this please do sit down and think about just being human . remember we all consist of the flesh and blood .
Regards and Love to all those who were either touched or could feel wht i was tryin to convey and to those also to those who could not feel the same way. u will some day ;)
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