"girls will be 'nice' only in front of the guys they are interested in"

how true is that statement??? some of us will feel that its rubbish.... but trust me, i did not make it up! it was actually said by girls! i have no idea what were they thinking when they said it out but for me, they are actually insulting the guy friends around them. haiyo. these people..... will not change even if Mahatma Gandhi is re-born. 'girls will be nice in front of guys they like or interested in': this statement is fine but to add only before nice, i think its ridiculous. y do girls need to act differently in front of people. if u dun like someone, just say it and stay away. that's much better than being with the person and insulting him in front of others.

for girls who think the statement is flawless, i'm quite sad for u. i have no idea when u will be 'nice', if u know what i mean. i dunno what made the girls think that guys will entertain such girls. if they do, then they are after something else. i take it as an insult for all the guys. if guys can be themselves in public, whenever n wherever, y can't girls do the same. okay, i might not understand the girls' hormones that well, but u know, thats not the way to treat guys or anyone. u'll treat a guy very nicely only if u like or interested in him and when u dun need nor like him anymore, u'll treat him like s**t.

i tell u what, this is what guys do. when a guy doesn't like a girl, he will say that he doesn't like her and when she needs help, he will try his best to help. this is what most of the guys do. some of the girls, when they need help, they'll be the nicest things on earth but when they don't need any, guys are like kryptonites to them. and i'm talking about those some of girls!! i know a lot of girls. most of them are very nice and appreciate their friends. but i dunno what really happened to this group of girls. as far as i concern, a girl will be interested in a guy only after she spends sometime together with the guy. during this period, you have to be yourself and show your partner whether u r nice or not in his eyes. not wait till u have feelings on him and then trying to be nice. by that time, if the guy has pride, he would have dumped u for another girl!!!

i think we need to change the statement. "girls will be nice too in front of the guys they are interested in". that sounds better but i dunno how many will follow......