When relationship is brought into friendship....

finished my final project and submitted today... feel so relieved. but, still got 4 cas next week. still have to carry on with my hard work till the end of my final exams.... man, last sem looks like the busiest ever when i wanted a memorable one. maybe it is memorable in one way or another...

i came across a friend's problem back at home. lets call the person S. S has crush on a fren of his/hers. Lets call that person W. So S has crush on W, in short. and S has another fren who he/she knows for quite sometime. Call the person G. S and G are close frens (and only close frens) and S has crush on W. G and W are close friends as well. Since they are close, S is a bit jealous with G. Though they are frens for quite a long time, because of jealousy, they often have problems with each other. S expects G to stay away from G. And this is what i dun agree. Why should G?

If u like a person, (only one way, i mean), u dun have the rights to control who talks or close to the person u like. what made u think that u can control? loving a person means thinking about the person and understanding the person. not expecting things around the person to be the way u want. thats selfish. and selfish isn't love!!!

Now, S knows that there is no chance to win W. so S took a step back and stopped talking to W. Since G is a fren of W, S is not talking to G too. so means, S has been looking G as W's fren after all. not S's own friend. this is what happens when one wants to bring relationship into friendships......