Be a man.... of your words!!!

when a person promises something and did not deliver at the end, what would we think of the person? if the person really put in a lot of effort but just that he din have the luck to get it done, then he can be forgiven and be trusted for the next time. but if he din take it seriously and slack all the time and we somehow predicted what would happen, then he doesn't worth our trust anymore.

i have met a lot of people who kept and still keeping their promises. but i have also met a few who said something but never lived up to it. it's like 'cakap tak serupa bikin' in Malay. u can see him saying 'i'll never do this',' i'll never do that', 'that is just not me' and some other crap but ending up doing everything. sometimes its just funny. worse still when they advice someone else not to do what they are doing. haha. just wanna say something here. if u wanna advice a person not to do something, first of all, you must not be doing it! what's the point of telling people it's bad when u urself keep doing it. no one will trust u. something like if Osama comes out and says terrorism is bad, who'll will trust him. if he admits his mistakes and return to the right path (which will never happen), then that's another story. but when he's the world's most wanted man for terrorism and if he says shooting is bad, that just ain't right.

do not say anything nor promise anything if u r unable to deliver. trust is something very hard to regain once u lose it. its very easy to say i'm a man of my words, but being it is not as easy as saying it.