Blaming others..... y?

well, no one wants to be at the wrong side. no one wants to be blamed. and most of us will somehow try to take the 'short-cut' to escape from something. and for that, we'll even blame others.

if something goes wrong, the best thing to do is to identify the problems and think of the solutions and try to solve them. however, in that process, people might point others for the mistakes and problems created. it goes along with 'not in my backyard'. as long as i'm fine, thats okay. something like that. a bunch of losers.

for me, only a coward will blame others. only a coward person will take the 'chicken' way to run away from problems. be a man. do the right thing. no one is perfect. we do make mistakes. but we have to learn from the mistakes and try our very best not to repeat them but not having a good night sleep by blaming others. if u happen to make a mistake, admit it. promise urself that u will not repeat it. this is what i think is appropiate.

for some people, i hope you'll stop blaming others and take the responsibilities of ur own s**tz. try to be brave and fix the problems u create. u'll be happier than ever. stop pointing ur fingers to others!!!

first day of schooooool....

well, today is the start of the school of my last sem... kind of boring first day. the first two classes, with 300 and 550 students respectively in the lecture halls. man, guess what. i learned some basic simple sampling and history of perfumes. haha. my 6pm class was another shocker. only 13 of us inside. ganja. so unpopular module. the competition must be very high and i know i wont be up there. haha.

new sem, new goals. wanna do everything systematically. must start now or else it will be messy towards the end of the sem. haha. my printer doesnt wanna print my notes and i have no idea why. man, its a challenging semester. all da best to all. never give up!!!

Lesson of the day: never deprive anyone of hope. it may be all they have!!!

Being sad... y do people choose it?

i was chatting with a fren the other day and i came to know that she din celebrate the new year the way she always used to: with a smile. when asked, she told me that she was feeling sad. her fren was frustrated about something and took all the frustation on my fren. she was down coz her fren had never treated her like that before n vice versa. as a fren who's very far away, i could only console her by words which din turn out well as i expected.

this made me think. y do people feel sad? hormones? emotions? anyway, i feel that it's our choice. being sad is normal, i agree. but no one likes to be sad or depressed. who are the ones committing suicide? the happy ones? the smiling ones? i dun think so. if something goes the way we din want to, its good to think about it and solve it. we might not make it follow our way again, but at least, we'll learn something. when u lose, dun lose the lesson! everything is meant to be. everything has its own explanation. but time matters. i'm going thru a lot that i can't even explain. but i know, in future, i'll get all the explanation i want. always think positive and there won't be any negative things happening to u.

honestly, if i were to frown, sad or depressed for what i've gone thru or what i'm going thru, there won't be a single minute for me to smile. but i din choose to. coz being sad will not solve any problems. being happy will at least makes us feel and think better. enjoy the life coz life is short. dun be sad coz people who are sad tend to get angry very fast. and anger is just one word short of danger. think twice if u wanna be sad. overcome it fast, u'll live ur life better!!!

Lesson of the day: love your job and u'll never work another day in ur life!!!

A well spent New Year!

First of all, Happy New Year to all. How did your new year celebration go? Did u go for any countdowns anywhere? hope you had an enjoyable new year. after all, its 2007!!!

My new year was born in a quiet manner. The first thing i did on my new year was to do laundry at 12.05am. haha. on this new year, we should be clean, rite? then i went to bed at around 2am. woke up early in the morning to go to temple. It's always good to start anything by going to the temple first. Vertical relationships are much more important than horizontal ones. So i met Mohan there and after the prayers, we took breakfast at Little India. A good start of my new year. After that, i met Rachel to do the project together. we had so much fun together; she being so frustrated at the software while i was enjoying my new sitcom: 'My Name is Earl'. Quite funny and interesting.

nothing much till we met for dinner. We went to Vivo City. Mohan joined us there. had a very long and productive chat. well, there's no one particular new year resolution for me. This year's only goal is to make everything i wished and dream before come true. i'll try my best coz even if i lose, i would not lose the lesson. I came back to my room after 11pm. What a day!!! I really feel that i spent the start of 2007 quite well. hope everyone did.

Lesson of the day for the year!!! What goes around comes around. If you do good things, good things will happen to you. But if u do bad things, they will come back to haunt u-karma! - quoted from the new sitcom. Happy New Year!!!