our lives are not complete without friends. in every sweet memory of ours, friends somehow will be there. without friends, our lives would be in the dark; without fun, care and love. however, some really don't know how to treasure the friendship he/she has.
after going thru a lot of things, i realize that friends are not easy to get. i used to be the luckiest person in getting frens (i still think i am) but somehow, some of them just dun worth my friendship. i dun understand why pep taking friendship for granted. for an instance, i am their good buddy only when i'm needed and when i'm not, no one cares whether i'm alive or not. is this what we call friendship???
there are a lot of examples.... for an instance, when 2 of the frens are together, both of them are like siamese twins; cannot be separated. but when they are apart, they'll be talking bad about each other like no one's business. another example is, the fren needs another fren to help him/her but when the other fren needs help, he/she will be asking, "y r u coming to me everytime?" well, i'm not telling that u need to have friendship with expectations. but when u need help, frens are the first one to be there. if he/she is not there when u need someone, then they are not ur frens at all. throw them away and carry on with ur life!
i came across this saying: it's not what u think; its what u know. this reminded me of a fren who has this attitude: its not what u know; its what u think u know. haha. he/she (to play safe) is a joke. he/she doesn't realize that this world is not that easy as what he/she is expecting to live in.
these pep dun treasure friendships. i think pep start to appreciate only when they lose it. its not easy to get someone to be always there for us no matter what we r facing..... but if we do have, we must treasure coz at the end of the day, we'll realize that there's not many of them who'd be there for us..........
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Hahaz i see uve taken the quote frm the writin on the seminar room , foolish the person u are referin to and yes totally agreed only remembered for the assistance u can give and not for who u are . friendship here is totally based on wht u can offer
=) you are absolutely correct. wonder what sparked off this entry.. ;) one thing will always stand true "a friend in need, is a friend indeed"
Susan n Dinesh im assumin if any1 else was in our shoes theyd b crying everynight , it hurts real bad .somethin ppl shud neva experience in their life time
guess what, only those who have exoerienced it will understand what i'm trying to say. well, life is all about learning.....
yeap, and it makes you wiser too the next time you decide who to call a friend and who to call an acquaintance. =)
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