"A friend in need is a friend indeed"! How true is that statement? you might not understand it till you have gone through hard times. We might think that friends are those who are together with us when we are having fun or when we are celebrating our birthdays. We might even be angry if the friend doesn't greet us when walking pass by us. Well, it's true but not completely true. Will the friends who shared your laughter be also there when u r in grieving tears? or will they actually lift you up when you 'fall down' badly? Now, if they will, they are the true friends. If they do not or will not, then they don't worth your friendship. Friends are the ones who share our happiness and also care when we are in pain.
To be a good friend, first we have to think about our behaviour. If you know you are not the person who will be there when your friends are in trouble, you might have to change your attitude. Some people think that if they change their attitudes, they'll lose their 'original' self. Well, to be honest, do you really wanna be like that. You are no better than a dancing doll. Even a dog will be sad if its master is not feeling well. So what's the purpose of you having friends. You are selfish, sorry to say. If there's room to improve, please do so even it would change your way of living. Back to friends, from thinking who are your friends, first think whether you are a good friend. that's important. will u be there when your friends need someone? or will you be caring enough to ask whether your friend is having problems or not? If you will, then u may think about your friends. If they don't, then they don't worth your friendship.
It's true that when we help our friends, we don't expect anything. if you do, then you are not an honest person. However, we do sometimes need help. We can expect something from our friends to help make things better. But if none of your friends appears, then no point shedding your tears. They just don't worth it. Keep going and of course you'll find true friends one day. Once you find them, you'll be always satisfied and relieved. Remember, no one worth your tears, and the one who is will not make you cry!!!!
Friendship forever.
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Bro, for the first time u blogged something from ur brains and not your balls....
Freindship forever dude!
tks for everything.. this 2 years
Aman
im fcukin proud to say dinesh uhit the nail on the head. those bastards wil onli look for u if thy need u , they dnt thn u cn fck off . nw i suddenly feel the pain frm last sem , give me half a chance ill personally rip their heart.
ur bad karma is fuckin nt gonna gt ur to nirvana assholes. nw tht my emotions are talkin u probably thnk itz rubbish but hear me out if u wann knw wht the hell happen last sem.
son of a bitches best go fuck off in sum chinese university for all i care la .
i knw itz all been brutal words frm my Roman Catholic mouth but sumthings have to b released wit all due respect i think most r fit to rot in a hole full of cow dung
Aman ur right itz Dinesh's best piece after a long time which makes sense.*Respect*
Peace and Love to all
Bros, first of all, when i wrote this blog, my mind was clear and my heart was pure. i did not write to pin-point or blame someone. i feel that friends are the best thing that could happen in one's life apart from happy family. but not everyone realizes it. that's y i wrote this. i can undeerstand your feelings, but y r we playing the 'victim' role by complaining??? this is what i said previously about making small positive changes which could result in big difference! Lets all do it!!!
LOLz i was just tryin to talk like Aman . Did i do well ?
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