well, no one wants to be at the wrong side. no one wants to be blamed. and most of us will somehow try to take the 'short-cut' to escape from something. and for that, we'll even blame others.
if something goes wrong, the best thing to do is to identify the problems and think of the solutions and try to solve them. however, in that process, people might point others for the mistakes and problems created. it goes along with 'not in my backyard'. as long as i'm fine, thats okay. something like that. a bunch of losers.
for me, only a coward will blame others. only a coward person will take the 'chicken' way to run away from problems. be a man. do the right thing. no one is perfect. we do make mistakes. but we have to learn from the mistakes and try our very best not to repeat them but not having a good night sleep by blaming others. if u happen to make a mistake, admit it. promise urself that u will not repeat it. this is what i think is appropiate.
for some people, i hope you'll stop blaming others and take the responsibilities of ur own s**tz. try to be brave and fix the problems u create. u'll be happier than ever. stop pointing ur fingers to others!!!
Thursday, January 18, 2007
Monday, January 08, 2007
first day of schooooool....
well, today is the start of the school of my last sem... kind of boring first day. the first two classes, with 300 and 550 students respectively in the lecture halls. man, guess what. i learned some basic simple sampling and history of perfumes. haha. my 6pm class was another shocker. only 13 of us inside. ganja. so unpopular module. the competition must be very high and i know i wont be up there. haha.
new sem, new goals. wanna do everything systematically. must start now or else it will be messy towards the end of the sem. haha. my printer doesnt wanna print my notes and i have no idea why. man, its a challenging semester. all da best to all. never give up!!!
Lesson of the day: never deprive anyone of hope. it may be all they have!!!
new sem, new goals. wanna do everything systematically. must start now or else it will be messy towards the end of the sem. haha. my printer doesnt wanna print my notes and i have no idea why. man, its a challenging semester. all da best to all. never give up!!!
Lesson of the day: never deprive anyone of hope. it may be all they have!!!
Saturday, January 06, 2007
Being sad... y do people choose it?
i was chatting with a fren the other day and i came to know that she din celebrate the new year the way she always used to: with a smile. when asked, she told me that she was feeling sad. her fren was frustrated about something and took all the frustation on my fren. she was down coz her fren had never treated her like that before n vice versa. as a fren who's very far away, i could only console her by words which din turn out well as i expected.
this made me think. y do people feel sad? hormones? emotions? anyway, i feel that it's our choice. being sad is normal, i agree. but no one likes to be sad or depressed. who are the ones committing suicide? the happy ones? the smiling ones? i dun think so. if something goes the way we din want to, its good to think about it and solve it. we might not make it follow our way again, but at least, we'll learn something. when u lose, dun lose the lesson! everything is meant to be. everything has its own explanation. but time matters. i'm going thru a lot that i can't even explain. but i know, in future, i'll get all the explanation i want. always think positive and there won't be any negative things happening to u.
honestly, if i were to frown, sad or depressed for what i've gone thru or what i'm going thru, there won't be a single minute for me to smile. but i din choose to. coz being sad will not solve any problems. being happy will at least makes us feel and think better. enjoy the life coz life is short. dun be sad coz people who are sad tend to get angry very fast. and anger is just one word short of danger. think twice if u wanna be sad. overcome it fast, u'll live ur life better!!!
Lesson of the day: love your job and u'll never work another day in ur life!!!
this made me think. y do people feel sad? hormones? emotions? anyway, i feel that it's our choice. being sad is normal, i agree. but no one likes to be sad or depressed. who are the ones committing suicide? the happy ones? the smiling ones? i dun think so. if something goes the way we din want to, its good to think about it and solve it. we might not make it follow our way again, but at least, we'll learn something. when u lose, dun lose the lesson! everything is meant to be. everything has its own explanation. but time matters. i'm going thru a lot that i can't even explain. but i know, in future, i'll get all the explanation i want. always think positive and there won't be any negative things happening to u.
honestly, if i were to frown, sad or depressed for what i've gone thru or what i'm going thru, there won't be a single minute for me to smile. but i din choose to. coz being sad will not solve any problems. being happy will at least makes us feel and think better. enjoy the life coz life is short. dun be sad coz people who are sad tend to get angry very fast. and anger is just one word short of danger. think twice if u wanna be sad. overcome it fast, u'll live ur life better!!!
Lesson of the day: love your job and u'll never work another day in ur life!!!
Tuesday, January 02, 2007
A well spent New Year!
First of all, Happy New Year to all. How did your new year celebration go? Did u go for any countdowns anywhere? hope you had an enjoyable new year. after all, its 2007!!!
My new year was born in a quiet manner. The first thing i did on my new year was to do laundry at 12.05am. haha. on this new year, we should be clean, rite? then i went to bed at around 2am. woke up early in the morning to go to temple. It's always good to start anything by going to the temple first. Vertical relationships are much more important than horizontal ones. So i met Mohan there and after the prayers, we took breakfast at Little India. A good start of my new year. After that, i met Rachel to do the project together. we had so much fun together; she being so frustrated at the software while i was enjoying my new sitcom: 'My Name is Earl'. Quite funny and interesting.
nothing much till we met for dinner. We went to Vivo City. Mohan joined us there. had a very long and productive chat. well, there's no one particular new year resolution for me. This year's only goal is to make everything i wished and dream before come true. i'll try my best coz even if i lose, i would not lose the lesson. I came back to my room after 11pm. What a day!!! I really feel that i spent the start of 2007 quite well. hope everyone did.
Lesson of the day for the year!!! What goes around comes around. If you do good things, good things will happen to you. But if u do bad things, they will come back to haunt u-karma! - quoted from the new sitcom. Happy New Year!!!
My new year was born in a quiet manner. The first thing i did on my new year was to do laundry at 12.05am. haha. on this new year, we should be clean, rite? then i went to bed at around 2am. woke up early in the morning to go to temple. It's always good to start anything by going to the temple first. Vertical relationships are much more important than horizontal ones. So i met Mohan there and after the prayers, we took breakfast at Little India. A good start of my new year. After that, i met Rachel to do the project together. we had so much fun together; she being so frustrated at the software while i was enjoying my new sitcom: 'My Name is Earl'. Quite funny and interesting.
nothing much till we met for dinner. We went to Vivo City. Mohan joined us there. had a very long and productive chat. well, there's no one particular new year resolution for me. This year's only goal is to make everything i wished and dream before come true. i'll try my best coz even if i lose, i would not lose the lesson. I came back to my room after 11pm. What a day!!! I really feel that i spent the start of 2007 quite well. hope everyone did.
Lesson of the day for the year!!! What goes around comes around. If you do good things, good things will happen to you. But if u do bad things, they will come back to haunt u-karma! - quoted from the new sitcom. Happy New Year!!!
Sunday, December 31, 2006
Last day of the year....
Today is the last day of the year which made me sit and think back what actually i've done and happened to me. well, if i were to put everything into colours, i would say, i've experienced white colour (white colour is the combination of all the rainbow colours). in short i've experienced almost everything.
2006 has been a year full of expectation. just that most of things i expected din happen. haha. but the few expectation which happened really gave me a reason to live this life. really. Family is the best. for me, without them, i'm nothing. the encouragement, support, love,etc. given by them have made me what i am today. friends are next. of course i've met some great frens which i am still with. i dun wanna talk bout those who don't deserve my friendship. they dun worth a word to talk about. my frens, u know who u r. Thank you for everything. u have been there for me when i needed someone. Estates, thank you. haha. if i were to mention everyone's name (which they really deserve it), this post will be freaking long. my Red Cross frens, course mates (LS), Malaysian dudes, colleagues, you know who u r. thank you very much. it's also because of you, i am who i am today. and i'm very proud of it.
2007, will be a year for me to start of a new journey. i really hope, the journey will bring me to the desired destination. I haven reached any of my goals yet. 2007 will be the year which i'll have a chance to make my dreams come true. since 2003, every year has been worse than the previous ones. haha. i really hope 2007 will turn out a good one.
And for all, Happy New Year. Oh ya, to Muslims, Selamat Hari Raya Aidiladha... c ya next year!!!
2006 has been a year full of expectation. just that most of things i expected din happen. haha. but the few expectation which happened really gave me a reason to live this life. really. Family is the best. for me, without them, i'm nothing. the encouragement, support, love,etc. given by them have made me what i am today. friends are next. of course i've met some great frens which i am still with. i dun wanna talk bout those who don't deserve my friendship. they dun worth a word to talk about. my frens, u know who u r. Thank you for everything. u have been there for me when i needed someone. Estates, thank you. haha. if i were to mention everyone's name (which they really deserve it), this post will be freaking long. my Red Cross frens, course mates (LS), Malaysian dudes, colleagues, you know who u r. thank you very much. it's also because of you, i am who i am today. and i'm very proud of it.
2007, will be a year for me to start of a new journey. i really hope, the journey will bring me to the desired destination. I haven reached any of my goals yet. 2007 will be the year which i'll have a chance to make my dreams come true. since 2003, every year has been worse than the previous ones. haha. i really hope 2007 will turn out a good one.
And for all, Happy New Year. Oh ya, to Muslims, Selamat Hari Raya Aidiladha... c ya next year!!!
Monday, December 25, 2006
Christmas.....
Hohoho... Merry Christmas....
actually, for me, Christmas this year is rather lonely. stuck in Singapore with no friends around... kind of lonely Christmas...
However, i had a good night at the yacht club on Saturday. I stayed overnight on the yacht. since i was in the yacht club, i could use all their facilities. no one to ask who r u? haha. i watched Man U's game there. it was good to sit on the sofa and watch the game on the 41 inch TV. really awesome.
After the match, i went back to the yacht. it was a windy night. quite cooling. i just sat outside of the yacht, on the deck. thinking back about my life. realized that a lot of things happened and some of them are really sweet. really really sweet memories. though sometimes, life is a bit shitty, but overall, its not that bad after all. in fact, i have learnt a lot. thats good. thinking back bout our lives gives us a chance to know ourselves better. how we used to be and so on. its a good thing to do. thinking bout the past for a better future...
tomorrow, have to go to work. an office job. not that bad. haha. how did i spend my December holidays? well, the first 10 days, i was helping my frens to move their luggages into the storage rooms. the next 5 days, i was having fun in Langkawi. and the rest of the holidays, i'm working my ass off. haha. quite cool. anyway, season greetings to all!!!!
actually, for me, Christmas this year is rather lonely. stuck in Singapore with no friends around... kind of lonely Christmas...
However, i had a good night at the yacht club on Saturday. I stayed overnight on the yacht. since i was in the yacht club, i could use all their facilities. no one to ask who r u? haha. i watched Man U's game there. it was good to sit on the sofa and watch the game on the 41 inch TV. really awesome.
After the match, i went back to the yacht. it was a windy night. quite cooling. i just sat outside of the yacht, on the deck. thinking back about my life. realized that a lot of things happened and some of them are really sweet. really really sweet memories. though sometimes, life is a bit shitty, but overall, its not that bad after all. in fact, i have learnt a lot. thats good. thinking back bout our lives gives us a chance to know ourselves better. how we used to be and so on. its a good thing to do. thinking bout the past for a better future...
tomorrow, have to go to work. an office job. not that bad. haha. how did i spend my December holidays? well, the first 10 days, i was helping my frens to move their luggages into the storage rooms. the next 5 days, i was having fun in Langkawi. and the rest of the holidays, i'm working my ass off. haha. quite cool. anyway, season greetings to all!!!!
Tuesday, December 19, 2006
Arrogant and egoistic ....... sad for you people!!!
People are sometimes selfish.... sometimes stubborn. however, there are people who can't control themselves and think that whatever they do is absolutely correct and flawless. i say its stupid. Well, if u think u will never make a mistake, actually, u just did. for this kind of 'never-learn' people, i can only pity u.
how do we know whether we r humble, friendly or at least not egoistic? very simple. look at the people around us. If we have frens who will always be there for us and frens who we r comfortable with, then definitely, we r on the right track of being humble n friendly. dun bother on what other people say coz what u think actually matters the most. if u r happy around ur frens, that's exactly what you want and need. some people are just jealous that we have friends. for them its okay if they dun have frens, but we must never have one. something like that. ganja, rite?
some will criticize each and everyone, but ending up being 'nice' in front of them. i feel that one has to be the same no matter who is around. some, for catching attention, will try to make him or herself at the worst situation coz of frens. but actually, they themselves are pathetic. and i know, at the end, these people will always be lonely. if asked, some dun have good frens or even a fren to go out with. they reason being the frens are not good. haha. if u have problems with another person, then maybe there might be misunderstanding between both if u. but if u have problems with a group of frens, then thats ur f***ing problem. try to look at urself in front of the mirror. if u can't figure out anything or being dizzy coz of looking at urself, my advice is look at the people who are surrounded by the people/frens they r comfortable with. u might learn something. try to respect others and listen. that's y God has given us ears. being arrogant and egoistic will never bring us anywhere up there.....
how do we know whether we r humble, friendly or at least not egoistic? very simple. look at the people around us. If we have frens who will always be there for us and frens who we r comfortable with, then definitely, we r on the right track of being humble n friendly. dun bother on what other people say coz what u think actually matters the most. if u r happy around ur frens, that's exactly what you want and need. some people are just jealous that we have friends. for them its okay if they dun have frens, but we must never have one. something like that. ganja, rite?
some will criticize each and everyone, but ending up being 'nice' in front of them. i feel that one has to be the same no matter who is around. some, for catching attention, will try to make him or herself at the worst situation coz of frens. but actually, they themselves are pathetic. and i know, at the end, these people will always be lonely. if asked, some dun have good frens or even a fren to go out with. they reason being the frens are not good. haha. if u have problems with another person, then maybe there might be misunderstanding between both if u. but if u have problems with a group of frens, then thats ur f***ing problem. try to look at urself in front of the mirror. if u can't figure out anything or being dizzy coz of looking at urself, my advice is look at the people who are surrounded by the people/frens they r comfortable with. u might learn something. try to respect others and listen. that's y God has given us ears. being arrogant and egoistic will never bring us anywhere up there.....
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